Last updated on June 27th, 2020 at 06:42 pm
He that findeth a wife is blessed.
More so, he that findeth a good wife is even more blessed.
A good wife understands her role and does them.
She appreciates her husband and tries to assist him in every way she can.
For women, understanding your role in marriage is the easiest way to unite your family.
The devil is definitely unhappy that you are married.
He searches for couples to cause havoc and pain in their union.
Therefore, you must be well-armed with the scriptures to protect your family from the devil.
If you are about to get married or already married, it is important to understand your role.
What are the duties of a wife according to the Bible?
Are there bile verses about wife role that you can learn from?
Yes, there are.
There are bible verses about the duties of a wife you can quickly learn from.
And it is expected that you need answers to some questions.
Such as —
Is the husband the head of the family?
How often should you have sexual time with your husband?
Who takes care of the house chores?
And who has the responsibility to provide?
Luckily, there are scriptures in the Bible that explains the responsibilities of a wife in marriage.
I have compiled bile verses to help you understand your obligations as a wife.
Bible Verses About Wives Roles
1. There is no room for a divorce
To start with, we must understand what marriage means
It is the union of two souls merged as one
That is, they are inseparable and will need each other for the rest of their lives
So, if you are having any issues with your husband, you must understand that there is no way out
God does not permit divorce in Christian homes (except for very few occasions)
Here are introductory bible verses about marriage
That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh.
3 Some Pharisees came to him to test him. They asked, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any and every reason?”
4 “Haven’t you read,” he replied, “that at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female,’[a] 5 and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’[b]? 6 So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.”
For example, by law a married woman is bound to her husband as long as he is alive, but if her husband dies, she is released from the law that binds her to him.
2. The man is the spiritual leader of the family
In the first few weeks of my marriage, my wife had issues with accepting my role as the head of the family
It was difficult for her, and I understand
Likewise, most women will also find it difficult to play second fiddle to their husband
Why should he be the only one to make important decisions?
The truth is, you have an essential role in decision making
As a family so far, I have always asked for my wife’s opinion about every major issue
And when we fail to agree on issues, someone has to take charge and lead.
That’s where your husband comes in
God has designed marriage to have a leader
The man is the leader and head of the family
In other words, you are to obey his instructions and submit to his authority
Here are some bible verses to you can learn from
1 Corinthians 11:3
But I want you to realize that the head of every man is Christ, and the head of the woman is man,[a] and the head of Christ is God
1 Peter 3:5-6
For this is the way the holy women of the past who put their hope in God used to adorn themselves. They submitted themselves to their own husbands, 6 like Sarah, who obeyed Abraham and called him her lord. You are her daughters if you do what is right and do not give way to fear.
“I will make your pains in childbearing very severe;
with painful labor you will give birth to children.
Your desire will be for your husband,
and he will rule over you.”
3. Wive must submit willingly to their husband
Now this is one of the most important roles of wives in the family
God has made your husband the head of the family
What that simply means is that you are under his authority
Therefore, you must be submissive to your husband willingly all through your marriage
In my experience so far, the most effortless way to make your husband happy is to submit to him
The truth is, love naturally make you submit to your husband
For instance, I have been submissive to my wife and vise versa
When there is love in marriage, there is usually no room to force anyone to submit
Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord.
Wives, submit yourselves to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord
1 Peter 3:1-2
Wives, in the same way submit yourselves to your own husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives,2 when they see the purity and reverence of your lives.
1 Peter 3:3
3 Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes.
1 Peter 3:4-5
4 Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight.
1 Peter 3:5-6
5 For this is the way the holy women of the past who put their hope in God used to adorn themselves. They submitted themselves to their own husbands, 6 like Sarah, who obeyed Abraham and called him her lord. You are her daughters if you do what is right and do not give way to fear.
to be self-controlled and pure, to be busy at home, to be kind, and to be subject to their husbands, so that no one will malign the word of God.
4. You must provide him with sexual pleasures when he wants it
This is one other important issue in marriage
How often should you make out with your husband?
What happens when he is interested, and you are not?
In my marriage, this has been an issue, even till date
My wife is mostly uninterested in lovemaking
On the other hand, I want it as often as possible
But there is a line — which is understanding and trust
As a couple, we must try to understand each others opinion
But this should not be taken for granted — That’s where trust comes in
If you are not in the mood or you are sick, be truthful and communicate to your partner
The truth is, neither of you has any authority over your bodies
That is, if your husband wants to make out, you have no obligation to resist him and vice versa
Here are Bible verses about wives role on lovemaking
1 Corinthians 7:2
But since sexual immorality is occurring, each man should have sexual relations with his own wife, and each woman with her own husband.
1 Corinthians 7:3-4
3 The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. 4 The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife.
1 Corinthians 7:5
5 Do not deprive each other except perhaps by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
5. You must take care of the family
Everything related to the family is under your care
Cooking for your husband and the kids
Teaching the kids and raising them in the right way of the Lord
Don’t get me wrong; your husband should also contribute with all theses
But, it is your home too, and you must make it a success
My wife enjoys taking care of me and keeping the house clean
She likes cooking and always does it with joy
In the past few weeks, since she got pregnant, I have had to come in to make things easy for her
I now clean the sitting room and accompany her to the market
With love, you can always ask your husband to support you
Here are some bible verses about wifes duties
A wife of noble character who can find?
She is worth far more than rubies.
11 Her husband has full confidence in her
and lacks nothing of value.
12 She brings him good, not harm,
all the days of her life.
13 She selects wool and flax
and works with eager hands.
14 She is like the merchant ships,
bringing her food from afar.
15 She gets up while it is still night;
she provides food for her family
and portions for her female servants.
16 She considers a field and buys it;
out of her earnings she plants a vineyard.
17 She sets about her work vigorously;
her arms are strong for her tasks.
18 She sees that her trading is profitable,
and her lamp does not go out at night.
19 In her hand she holds the distaff
and grasps the spindle with her fingers.
20 She opens her arms to the poor
and extends her hands to the needy.
21 When it snows, she has no fear for her household;
for all of them are clothed in scarlet.
22 She makes coverings for her bed;
she is clothed in fine linen and purple.
23 Her husband is respected at the city gate,
where he takes his seat among the elders of the land.
24 She makes linen garments and sells them,
and supplies the merchants with sashes.
25 She is clothed with strength and dignity;
she can laugh at the days to come.
26 She speaks with wisdom,
and faithful instruction is on her tongue.
27 She watches over the affairs of her household
and does not eat the bread of idleness.
28 Her children arise and call her blessed;
her husband also, and he praises her:
29 “Many women do noble things,
but you surpass them all.”
30 Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting;
but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.
31 Honor her for all that her hands have done,
and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.