Last updated on June 26th, 2020 at 06:56 am
Patience in a relationship is absolutely necessary.
And that’s because, without tolerance, there is no true friendship.
God has created us in a very unique way.
Each of us has our strengths and weaknesses.
Hence, when you think things aren’t going well in your relationship, you must be patient.
I had similar issues with my wife.
When I first met her, I was not born again.
I had other girlfriends and barely gave her love, care, and support she desired.
For the first few years, My wife did all she could to understand me with all my flaws.
She was patient because she truly loved me.
There are many nights she wakes up to pray for our relationship.
And surprisingly, things began to change really fast.
Until our marriage last year, I have been the one trying to make things work.
From being a terrible guy, I have grown to love her and treat her well.
Therefore, if you are struggling with your partner, you must wait patiently in God.
I have compiled bible verses about patience in a relationship that will inspire you.
Bible verses about patience in a relationship
1. Timothy 4:2
Preach the word; be prepared in season and out of season; correct, rebuke and encourage—with great patience and careful instruction
2. Hebrews 10:36
For you have need of endurance, so that when you have done the will of God, you may receive what was promised.
3. Genesis 29:20
So Jacob served seven years for Rachel and they seemed to him but a few days because of his love for her.
4. Romans 12:10
Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.
5. Thessalonians 1:3
We remember before our God and Father your work produced by faith, your labor prompted by love, and your endurance inspired by hope in our Lord Jesus Christ.
6. Colossians 3:14
Beyond all these things put on love, which is the perfect bond of unity.
7. 1 Thessalonians 3:12
and may the Lord cause you to increase and abound in love for one another, and for all people, just as we also do for you;
8. Romans 14:1
Accept the one whose faith is weak, without quarreling over disputable matters.
9. Peter 3:7
Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers.
10. Ephesians 4:2
Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.
Final words about patience in a relationship
1. Patience is not plain stupidity
There are times in a relationship when nothing works.
If you are dealing with this type of friendship, its important that you pray to God
God alone searches the heart of man, and he will definitely come to your aid if you pray
But you should not always keep silent.
Always make your concerns known to your partner
“hey, I don’t like the way you treat me” or “I don’t like the way you move with other girls or guys.”
At all times be ready to rebuke with carefully chosen words (not quarreling) and encourage your partner too
Paul said,
Preach the word; be prepared in season and out of season; correct, rebuke and encourage—with great patience and careful instruction
2. God has promised you happiness, so hope on that
There are times when you have a rocky start to a relationship
That is, despite those charming words at the beginning, things begin to fall apart really fast
Your partner no longer talk to you like before, or he no longer cares about your feelings
At this point, Prayer becomes invaluable
Talk to God about all you are going through
Paul said,
For you have need of endurance, so that when you have done the will of God, you may receive what was promised.
3. We must all make sacrifices in a relationship
If we genuinely love each other, we must always be there when they need us
Not just in good times, but when things are going south
Sacrifice is the core of every healthy relationship
About two years ago, my wife (then girlfriend) got fed up with my ways of cheating
She has struggled over the years to make me change to no avail
So, she got fed up and decided to leave
That’s the focal point of our relationship.
At that point, I never knew how much she meant to me
As days went by, we stopped talking
Yeah, I was ignorantly a proud guy waiting for her to beg me as usual
But she didn’t
With each passing day, I was losing control of myself
At first, I thought I could do without her
But I was lying to myself
She was already part of my soul, and it was impossible to let her go
So, I had to make things work
It took me the grace of God, a vow, and multiple promises to get her back
We must all make sacrifices for our relationship to succeed
Genesis 29:20
So Jacob served seven years for Rachel and they seemed to him but a few days because of his love for her.
4. Let love lead
Yes, “he doesn’t care anymore,” or “she does not love you like she used to.”
It may not be the end yet
Tell your partner your feeling when necessary
Let them understand what you are feeling inside of you
Always try to treat them above yourselves
Be understanding and patient
Read bible verses about patience to inspire you (like this one)
And do not cease to pray
Paul said,
Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.
Surely, God, who knows the best for you, will grant your heart desires. Amen
5. Do not fornicate
Fornication is a sin before God
There are times when your partner wants more than just true friendship
We must not oblige
Always be patient and stand firm on the truth you believe
Here are some bible verse about fornication to inspire you
